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Okay, that last video got me addicted. I am now sitting at the Subaru dealer watching music video after music video. Why is this so addicting???
This one is my favorite song of all time, even after waking up to it every single morning for the last year. In fact, I love it so much it makes me want to take voice lessons to teach my tone-deaf self how to sing it. I feel sorry for whichever vocal instructor gets stuck with me…
Some of you may remember my obsession with Susan Boyle from a couple years back (if not, check it out here). There’s something about underdog stories that do me in, and she was the best I’d seen in a while. Today while I was stuck waiting for my car to get repaired I stumbled upon this one.
Similar to Susan, it’s a total underdog in ‘Korea’s Got Talent’ competition. Unlike Susan Boyle, he’s 15 and homeless. And somehow taught himself to sing like this while working on the street selling gum and candy. I don’t know what else to say except watch it.
Alright, I know everyone has been counting down the days to Bringing It Back Week (2010, 2009), but don’t get too excited yet. We’ve got another month or so until the official event, but I figured bringing the blog back might be a great start.
Back in Durham for good, I felt something was missing from my life. I’ve been reminded by several people that the something missing might just be Rate Your World. Let’s try it out to see if that solves the problem.
YARN‘S PERFORMANCE AT ‘HE’S NOT’: 7.5
This summer I went to a Bluegrass music festival in Floyd, VA for the first time (Floyd Fest). I think there will need to be some flashback ratings of this life changing event sometime in the near future… in the meantime, all you need to know is that I discovered several new amazing bands, one of which is called Yarn.
I saw their midnight show on Saturday night where they played all Grateful Dead covers (and considering I’ve never listened to the Dead, it was all new music to me ). The next day I checked out their afternoon show where they played all of their own music, and I fell even more in love. Came home with a CD, and have listened to nothing else for the month since.
You think I’m kidding. Please believe me when I tell you it plays in my car, on my stereo at home, before I go to bed, in my iPod at the pool, and pretty much the entire road trip up to Maine. Yes, I’ve listened to almost nothing else since.
Is it obvious that I love their music?
While I forgot a camera, here’s a quick look at their music… but beware, it’s addicting. Pretty soon you might be typing the same story I just told.
So I would like you to picture the excited face I made when I found they were playing in Chapel Hill this week. An outdoor performance at ‘He’s Not Here’. I was excited about the outdoor part, not quite as much about the ‘He’s Not’ part.
We’ve had some good times there in the past (see one of the original Rate Your World post for evidence), but it’s a classic college bar, the week that students are returning for classes. I was pleased to see that at 9:30 the crowd was a bit older. (What is happening to me that an older crowd excites me???)
The music was great. The company was excellent. The weather was AMAZING. Chuquin, who introduced me to the band at Floyd Fest, was in town, which made it even better. Couple small deductions, however…
-1: There were intense amounts of jam sessions. I realize many people like this. And I do appreciate that you hear things that aren’t on their album, making the live performance a bit different than the recorded performance. However, Blake (the lead singer)’s voice is amazing. And more jamming means less singing. So really, it should be -1: More of Blake’s beautiful singing.
-1: At around 11:00 the crowd took a violent turn for the worse. The old people (including most of my friends) took off, as we all have to work tomorrow. The young people, who have yet to start classes, began pouring in. And drinking. A lot. The area got crowded, the girls got a bit more obnoxious, and the number of people smoking quadrupled. Bummer.
-1: Some dude had an intense microphone set up in the tree we were standing right in front of. I’m oblivious, so definitely did not notice this despite the awkward stares he kept giving me (later translated as ‘Get the f*** away from my mike’ stares). Finally when someone pointed it out he came over and said “I don’t mind if you continue to talk right in front of the mike, but just be aware that everything you say is being recorded”. Seriously dude? You couldn’t have told me this BEFORE I had multiple conversations RIGHT IN FRONT OF IT. Apparently not…
+.5: Luckily most of our conversation was clean up to that point. Until we knew the mike was there. That’s when we got inappropriate. Enjoy your recording buddy
Overall yet another great night out in Chapel Hill. Until next time, just living for the tens
In fact, I’m pretty sure almost two years ago I called him the love of my life. It appears not much changes in two years.
At that time, Paul and I also made a trip to his concert in Durham. It was an amazing experience that earned a rating of 9.5 (-.5 for the venue).
He has now come out with a new CD called ‘Bare Bones’ that I received a copy of over Thanksgiving break. I listened to it the whole ride back from Harrisburg, and have pretty much not stopped playing it since (except for brief intervals of the Bryan Adams station on Pandora). It’s been so fun to revisit all my favorites, that inevitably take me back to freshman year of college. My poor roommate, Anjali, had to put up with my love and constant playing of ‘Everything I Do, I Do it for You’, ‘Here I Am’ and ‘Please Forgive Me’. I’d prefer to think I just helped her fall in love with him as well
Regardless, on to the album rating.
BARE BONES: 8
-1: One of the things I loved most about his concert was the way he interacted with the audience, rather than just playing music. However when I heard some of the same jokes on the album that I heard in person, it made me feel like our time together may not have been as genuine as I thought…
-1: A collection of great songs, but a couple I either don’t know, or just don’t love as much. But, that could just be the price you pay for an album with 20 songs. You’re bound to hit a couple you don’t love quite as much.
Let me assure you, these two points will not be preventing me from continuing to play it on repeat until I do know all the songs. Or from researching when he will next be playing in North Carolina…
I’ve decided that I’d rather go broke than miss out on live music. I can’t believe I almost hesitated earlier this week when it came to seeing The Swell Season live tonight, solely because of the $20 price tag. Thank god I came to my senses and remembered how much I love both outdoor concerts and The Swell Season.
The framily headed out for an early arrival, planning a picnic before the show. Only the framily does picnics like this…
GOURMET PICNIC: 9
If there’s one thing the Bobbasheely Framily does right it’s food. Combine the brilliance of Laura, Paul, Jay and occassionally me, you’re bound to end up with a feast. Sadly we were missing Ben, Katie, Scott, and Snooky, but as you’ll see we managed to get by on the food front…
I provided the veggies and left with a TON. Can’t say this is a bad thing though, as I now have five different kinds of veggies pre-washed, cut and baggied for the week ahead. Score!
-1 for buying a Sheetz sub on the way, forgetting that Laura was coming and clearly would provide delicious tuna salad wraps, solving my ‘tons of snacks but no real meal’ concern. Next time…
One of the things I love most about concerts is that they provide you the opportunity to get to just hang out with your favorite artists. Anyone can listen to someone’s CD at home and enjoy the music. But at a concert you get the stories and banter that goes with it. This is only the case if the artists are actually enjoying the concert as much as you are, and Glen Hansard certainly was.
GLENN HANSARD’S STAGE PRESENCE: 10
He was HILARIOUS, and gave plenty of chatting time between each song. This I loved. Plus when playing he was full of emotion and clearly digging the music. He ad-libbed as necessary, and got the crowd involved in almost every song… not good news when I’m in the audience, but nevertheless he was hopeful
HER AWKWARDNESS: 2
It was clear he dominated the stage and the show, and I have to admit I felt pretty bad for her apparent uncomfort when performing… I will say, however, while it’s receiving a low rating it has nothing to do with her talent. That would be a whole seperate rating, and clearly way above a 10.
HIS HUMILITY: 10!
SO appealing. What a great, down-to-earth guy. Never for a minute did he come off as too cool for school, and was so good to the whole audience.
Early on he invited anyone and everyone to come down front and fill the huge gap that’s part of this particular theatre, meaning Laura and I enjoyed up-close seats the entire time As soon as it filled up he commented ‘Now it feels like a gig!’. Can totally picture this guy rocking out at the local pub…
In his own words:
“It is exhausting at times, but the idea of going on stage and singing a bunch of notes and a bunch of chords, the idea that people would pay to see that is kind of sad. I hate to say it, I have gone to concerts where bands are doing just that, and I feel cheated. I think if people are going to spend their hard-earned money on a Friday night to go see my band, the best thing for me to do is get my own ego out of there and do a good gig.”
Clearly I videod a couple pieces of the concert. But what’s with the folks who feel it’s necessary to film the ENTIRE concert? I wonder if they actually go back and watch the whole thing… can’t imagine why if the quality’s anything like what I took home. This dude seriously didn’t put down his flip cam the entire concert…
Whatever floats your boat I suppose
LOVING LIFE GUY: 10
This guy on the other hand never once lifted a camera, but instead just loved every single piece of the concert. Head bobbing, dancing, the most emphatic claps I’ve ever seen… he covered it all.
People like this make me love concerts just a little bit more than I would have otherwise… doesn’t get any better.
GLENN’S WHITE MAN DANCE: 10!!!
What more is there to be said about this? Glenn dances like a white guy and I love it.
FALLING SLOWLY: 10
God I love this song. I used to play it in my classroom all the time, and when it won the Oscar I could finally gloat to my students that my taste in music was verifiably good. They didn’t buy it.
I still love the song more than any other love song. Ever.
RANDOM DUDE ON STAGE: 10
Just to prove my point about what a great guy Glenn is, as he was playing a Bruce Springsteen song at the end, and getting the crowd to sing, some random dude from the audience jumped on stage and took over the mike. Glenn loved it, graciously moved to the side and let him have his moment. He rocked out on the chorus, and then started giving hilarious shout-outs to ‘his’ band. Super entertaining, and the crowd loved him!
MY DECISION TO STAY IN NORTH CAROLINA: 10!!!
While facing a pretty tough decision a couple months back when tempted by an incredible job in New York City, tonight was a brilliant reminder why I belong in North Carolina.
In lieu (?) of spending Mother’s Day with my mom (although this will be happening on Tuesday as I finally head back North so a quick vacation) I got to celebrate with Scott and his parents. And boy do they have good taste. While I often kid Scott that he needs to take me to Ruth’s Chris for a fancy date (despite me not eating meat) I wasn’t actually expecting to ever go. However, luckily that’s what his mom wanted for Mother’s Day So off we went.
Three crabcakes, a ton of broccoli and half a giant baked potato later it was time for these…
However I’ll admit when I ordered the cheesecake I wasn’t expecting to get an entire cheesecake. One slice would have been just fine… left feeling overfull and sluggish due to the excessive dessert, but overall a DELICIOUS Mother’s Day lunch
PURGING AND PACKING: 7
I spent most of the weekend beginning the intense purging process that NEEDS to happen before packing up and moving again. Despite having done this the last time I moved two years ago, you would be amazed by how much more stuff I’ve collected. It’s out of control, really, and I feel genuinely excited about throwing half of it out.
I find a huge dilemma when it comes to purging, because the minimalist in me (despite the appearance of my apartment, it really does exist) wants to throw out everything I haven’t used in the past month, the cheapskate in me wants to save everything I might use in the next five years so I won’t have to run out and buy a new one. I’m trying my best to compromise between the two…
That being said, I ended up with three bags of trash, and three giant boxes of clothes/things to give away. My closet looks INFINITELY better. However, I’m sure it will be put into a completely different perspective when I move everything out of my giant walk-in closet into something that will continue to make it look excessive… the ongoing fight continues.
MURPH’S HAPPINESS WITH MY PURGING: 0
While I was happy with everything I was able to get rid of, Murph was not. Here he’s trying to rescue his beloved stuffed animal (that he insists on dragging around the apartment and shedding stuffing EVERYWHERE) from a box that’s just a bit too tall.
For all you that think I’m mean, I did eventually let him keep it, and they’re snuggled up together on the bed as I write this.
OUTDOOR CONCERT AT SOUTHERN VILLAGE: 9
Nothing quite like some Bobbasheely Framily time to finish the week off right… Scott and I headed over to Southern Village to picnic on the lawn with Laura and Snooky, and of course enjoy some live outdoor music.
The music was alright, but the company and food was GREAT. +10 for showing the boring crowd how to have some fun. -1 for all the stares we got. Come on guys, this isn’t the symphony, we’re at an outdoor concert!
As if you haven’t had enough ‘Total Eclipse of the Heart’ recently, Glee decided to do their own version this week. I’m pretty sure their writers read my blog. Just saying.
And while I was told to immediately watch the show, I decided to just go with the YouTube version.
GLEE’S VERSION OF TOTAL ECLIPSE OF THE HEART: 9
I’m not sure exactly who ‘needed who tonight’, as there were dramatic love glances everywhere, I can confidently say it’s the best vocal version of the song I’ve ever heard.
-1: There’s something to be said for the raspiness of Bonnie Tyler’s voice, and that’s missing here… but otherwise it’s INCREDIBLE!
Last night Laura, Scott and I headed to Tyler’s Taproom downtown after climbing, enjoying some beautifully warm weather and delicious foods. That is, until a thunderstorm began approaching, and striking everything in sight. For someone who is scared to death of thunderstorms, this doesn’t exactly make for a relaxing end to a meal. However, plus 2 since we didn’t get hit
DINNERTIME THUNDERSTORMS: 2
While this isn’t actually a photo I took, it might as well have been. Seriously, lightning striking EVERYWHERE.
Laura and I then headed down to Broad Street Cafe to see Ted Dreis and Alex Wilkins (of Tripp). Ted was up first, and really enjoyed the intro to yet another fabulous local musician in the triangle. Seriously, this place is amazing. Interesting lyrics, but fun sound, especially when he was playing guitar and harmonica at the same time
Then Alex was up, and unfortunately it was already getting late and we only stayed for a couple songs. HOWEVER, pleasantly surprised with this…
ALEX FINALLY SINGING MY MASON JENNINGS REQUEST: 10
While it took about 8 months, I finally got my Mason Jennings request. And you gotta give him some credit, considering as of my first request he had no idea who Mason was.
And Alex, don’t think this 10 is just because you asked for it…
MURPHY’S ATTEMPTS TO SHOW ME HE’S BORED: 4
It started with a ziploc bag torn to pieces, then turned to a cardboard box, and finally when it got to this I knew it was time to put my work aside and take him for a run. While annoying, and surprisingly difficult to clean up, it does force me to enjoy the nice weather Plus, I suppose dog’s need to communicate somehow, and Murph has definitely figured out what’s effective in getting what he wants… Plus, I can’t help but laugh.
Many know this is one of my favorite songs of all time. That, and my favorite karaoke song of ALL TIME. Snooky and I are an excellent duet, and perform this on a regular basis at karaoke venues across the triangle.
But today is your turn to rate! I’m including four different versions of Total Eclipse here, and would like your comparative ratings!
CHALLENGE… If we can get ten people to participate (people, I know the numbers. I get at least 100 hits a day, so 10% participation is totally doable) I will post a full length video of a Snooky/Janice version (don’t worry, stage names are coming). Bonus points for first-time commenters I often wonder who makes up the 100 hits…
Last night after watching some brilliant Olympic events, Scott, Laura and I headed down to Kildare’s Irish Pub on Franklin Street to see Tripp, one of my favorite local bands. Per usual, some interesting ratings came along with it…
KILDARE’S DECISION TO CONTINUE PLAYING MUSIC WHILE THE BAND PLAYED: 1
I’m a little bit confused why you would hire a live band, and then continue blasting music on your speakers… +1 because the band played loud enough that once they started you couldn’t hear the other music.
KILDARE’S DECISION TO PUT THE OLYMPICS ON MANY LARGE SCREEN TV’S: 9!
This meant I got to watch Apolo’s finals race for his first medal this Olympics (which proved my point about the precariousness of speed skating once the 2nd and 3rd Korean skaters crashed meters before the finish, giving Apolo the silver)! However, it also meant that half the people at the bar were facing TVs rather than socializing or paying attention to the band… not sure how I felt about that once Apolo was done.
THE RETURN OF HUGH SWASO: 10
When we first discovered Tripp last winter, one of our favorite parts was the awesome guitar player with the dreads. Sadly, he has left the band and I no longer get to enjoy his impressive showmanship. However, last night when Tripp took a break from playing, the guitar player and his new band, Swaso, played. LOVED IT.
Everything from Prince to Taylor Swift, it was a pretty impressive range of covers.
The crowd was super into it, and at one point he ended up on top of a bar table playing his guitar with his teeth. And it still managed to sound good. No idea how that happens, but they definitely rocked.
If you’re interested in checking them out, they’re playing next Friday at the Cat’s Cradle. If my parents weren’t in town I’d definitely be there, so it comes with a high recommendation from me.
SWASO’S OTHER GUITAR PLAYER (or was it a bass? I can never tell…): 3
I’m sure he was good as I definitely didn’t hear any bad sounds, but not nearly as entertaining as Hugh and played the whole time with a weird ‘I’m so sexy’ smirk on his face. Not sure what that was about, but wasn’t digging it… Tried to capture it on film, but without flash it only showed up as a blur. You’re gonna have to trust me on this one, or check it out yourself on Friday.
NEAR-BAR BRAWL: 6
At one point during the night we noticed a huge space opening up in front of us (rare considering how crowded it was) and discovered there was a fight about to happen right in front of us. In fact, it was already happening but hadn’t yet elevated from screaming to hitting (I was prepared to intervene and use my impressive self-defense skills to kick some butt).
I felt bad for them, as it seemed a bit awkward, but at the same time we were HIGHLY entertained by it. Clearly too drunk to care who was around and listening. All in all it provided for some good laughs, and no was hurt while we were there
Her yelling…
And then storming away…
Not for long… now back to do some more yelling. Eventually he gave up and stormed off and she was left awkwardly alone. I think she was kinda asking for it.
I suppose that’s enough creepy eavesdropping for one evening. Until next time, just living for the tens (and obsessively watching Apolo work his way towards a world record!)
Last night I got a bit of an early Valentine’s Day surprise.
SCOTT’S ABILITY TO GIVE CLUES: 2
It actually turned out not to be a surprise due to this low rating. I’ll give him two points because I’ll remain open to the idea that with my exceptional intelligence it’s a bit harder to surprise. However, the clue was still super easy to figure out, meaning I’ve been looking forward to this concert for about two months now
MISSING MY CAMERA CORD: 1
It’s gotta be around somewhere (plus 1), which means hopefully I’ll get it back soon. But this means that all the pictures I took last night won’t be able to be posted until I do. Luckily someone else at the concert has already posted a video on YouTube I will be including
In the meantime, if anyone has seen my black and red pencil case with a ton of pens, highlighters, and cords for different electronics, let me know! (Did I just give away what a huge dork I really am? Oh well.)
OPENING ACT: 10!!!!
As we were waiting in line outside waiting to get in, I reviewed my ‘list’ of concerts, that you may recall from this post. The beauty of ‘The List’ is that you only put artists on it that you are willing to pay any amount to go see. If they come to you, you MUST go see them. As a result, the list stays fairly short, saving money for when someone on ‘the list’ arrives. My list has looked about the same for years (in no particular order):
Elvis Presley (still holding my breath for this one)
Brandi Carlile (newest addition, added on about two years ago)
As you can see, the list is getting shorter as I’ve seen almost everyone on it. This is what we were discussing, and I mentioned that I’d really like to see the Indigo Girls again…
You can imagine my surprise when out walked Amy Ray on the stage. I knew the opener was Amy Ray, and I’m a bit embarrassed to admit this, but despite how often I listen to the Indigo Girls I didn’t know either of their names. So she walks out, opens her mouth, and Scott and I kind of look at each other and go ‘Isn’t she an Indigo Girl????’ I almost didn’t believe it at first, because I’m notoriously bad at actually recognizing singers by sound only, but luckily in this case we had the look to go with it.
There was no doubt. Our opener was half the Indigo Girls. And SHE WAS INCREDIBLE. Her voice, her energy, her personality, her band, everything. I loved her. Could not possibly have been more pleasantly surprised by an opener.
Now on to the main event. I feel the need to break this into several different ratings…
BREAK BETWEEN OPENER AND MAIN ACT: 2
It took about 45 minutes between acts, and it started a bit late. I know this is usually the case with concerts, but it’s made worse when you’re standing After 3 hours of being on your feet it gets a bit uncomfortable. Luckily I had a big tall guy to lean on which made it a bit nicer
FIRST NUMBER: 10!
It started with just their cellist playing, which was beautiful. Then the band came out and circled around one microphone, and with nothing but the cello sang an incredibly beautiful song. Also showed off their insane talent. Brandi’s voice is nothing like I’ve ever heard, with incredible range and beautiful sound. Plus distinctively unique. ANd the band can clearly do more than just rock out on the guitar, bass and drums. Great way to start.
REST OF THE SHOW: 9
It started off strong, and continued that way throughout. One thing I love about concerts is when 1) the band is having as much fun as you are, and 2) they talk to you throughout. That way you’re not just listening to their record, but you’re actually hanging out with them for a night. She was so incredibly gracious, humble and chatty, we got exactly that. Reminded me a lot of the Bryan Adams concert but in a smaller venue, which made it even more personal.
At one point they went totally unplugged, moved to the front of the stage, played two guitars, and a tambourine and just sang. Everyone was almost completely silent so we could hear them and it was so beautiful. Plus, completely different from what you’ll hear on the album. Truly wonderful.
-1 due to all the tall people standing in front of us (not including the tall guy standing with me). I wish I could have seen more of the action
Check out some highlights here, including several duets with Amy Ray.
I first fell in love with Brandi when listening to Pandora in my classroom one night after school my second year of teaching. ‘The Story’ came on randomly, and I immediately fell in love with what I heard. Minutes later I logged on to iTunes and bought the full album by the same name.
Every Sunday that year I drove two hours each way to Chapel Hill to climb, and listened to this album almost every week. To this day it still brings back strong memories and feelings from that year, and I must admit it was surreal listening to them last night as I now live in Chapel Hill and so many things have changed.